Are you shy? Do you avoid talking to people because youâ€™re afraid of being rejected? Or maybe youâ€™re just not very good at small talk. Whatever the reason, shyness is a real problem for lots of people. In this article, weâ€™ll look at some ways you can overcome your shyness and start dating.
1. Be Honest and Open
You have to be honest and open with your crush if you want to turn on him or her. When youâ€™re being honest, youâ€™re being real and authentic. You canâ€™t fake it. So donâ€™t try to pretend that you are someone that you arenâ€™t. Be yourself and express your true feelings. Be clear about what you like, what you donâ€™t like, and how he or she makes you feel.
If your crush likes the same things as you, be open about it. If he or she is interested in the same activities as you, share them with each other too! Be authentic and make sure that he or she knows what kind of person he or she is dealing with.
If he or she asks you to hang out, let him or her know. You canâ€™t just say no. It will seem like youâ€™re hiding something from him or her. If your crush wants to be your friend, thatâ€™s okay! Just remember that you canâ€™t have two best friends at once and if the situation changes, you have to choose one over the other.
Donâ€™t talk about things in a weird way, even if your crush doesnâ€™t understand English. If you canâ€™t express yourself properly, donâ€™t try to be funny. Just say what you want to say and if he or she doesnâ€™t understand, then just keep it simple.
If your crush is getting on your nerves, stop talking about him or her. That will make it easier for him or her to avoid you and it will make things awkward for both of you. It may seem like the right thing to do, but you should really try to control yourself and just forget about him or her.
Donâ€™t be afraid of giving up on your crush. You canâ€™t always control how things turn out and sometimes, it just doesnâ€™t work out. So if he or she doesnâ€™t want to talk to you anymore, then donâ€™t get mad about it. Just let it go! If the situation is too hard to handle, talk with a close friend.
2. Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
In order to turn on your crush, you need to get out of your comfort zone.
You can do this by:
– Going places you havenâ€™t been before
– Trying new things
– Trying something new with your friends or alone
If you stay in your comfort zone, you are less likely to make new friends and try new things. You may find yourself stuck in a rut and not having any fun.
In the end, this is what you are doing when you are trying to make friends: you are moving out of your comfort zone. You are taking a risk and showing your vulnerability to others. You can try anything once, but it is only when you take that leap that it becomes real.