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Was your pregnancy planned or unexpected? Share your story, If you'd like

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Topic starter Posted : April 7, 2022 10:36 am
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My friend had just lost hi wife, me and my husband hadn't been trying, but I took a test after I had helped my friend bc I noticed I had been extra sentimental and nauseous at the same time, his wife had just told me to be patient my time would come & now I have 5 tests all positive, so I believed it was her blessings that helped

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Posted : May 19, 2022 11:40 am
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Ours was planned but also unexpected. We lost a baby in 2019 and we tried for almost 3 years. We almost went into adoption of my bff's 2 nd child which she couldn't afford to keep but God had other plans for us both. A week later he says  'It's your turn" 15 weeks today! 😍 😍 

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Posted : May 19, 2022 12:14 pm
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Mine was unexpected. I had a D&C In Feb of this year and even though we were given the all clear a month later to try again,I was surprised! 

I have PCOS and I have been trying for over 6 years with my previous pregnancy, So falling pregnant first try after my D& C was a massive shock! I am 9 wks 2 days!

 

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Posted : May 19, 2022 2:18 pm
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My pregnancy was 100% unplanned. I was a month away from graduating high school when I got pregnant and I found out a few days ago. But I'm 5 weeks now so that's cool ig. I genuinely considered abortion bc I have so many plans and already so little money but Ik most of myfam would never forgive me and I also know that I have my fiance and families support for a pregnancy and child. I'm still terrified though, and I honestly don't wanna hear anything about it being a blessing from God bc that's not rly gona help me lol. I do want to know tips though like how to get through it ad what kind of things I can do to make earth easier, and anything you can think of other than just trust God or be optimistic lol. I'm really scared, especially with the US being like it is now

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Posted : May 19, 2022 2:35 pm
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@adelaide8862 Is your fiance supportive? If yes ,that's the most important. Having a family with someone that is sure about you and your baby

As for the rest of the family, they'll eventually come around

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Topic starter Posted : May 19, 2022 2:38 pm
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Totally unexpected and I'm super science oriented person don't believe wishful thinking but hear me out! Lol one of my friend came to visit and told me she was was pregnant I was super happy for her truly! and she even said now it's your turn1 and I remember thinking I wish I could get pregnant this easily. (I'm 36 never got pregnant) 2 weeks later took a test boom! Now 7 weeks pregnant and happy I got a free to make a baby 😆 because I thought at my age it would cot me a ton of money!

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Posted : May 19, 2022 2:45 pm
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Super unexpected! I was texting my friend that I was late but didn't want want to make a test yet. I usually get sore breast's before my period so I thought I was going to get it late. Since I have a history of PCOS I would miss my period every now and then. I really didn't want to take a test because I figured it would be negative like all other times, but when I took it came out positive and i was really thrown off guard. I am 8wks 4days today and we couldn't be anymore excited 🙂 we're looking foward to our ultrasound this week! Praying everything goes well!!

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Posted : May 19, 2022 2:52 pm
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It's been 7 years of our marriage and this time I have stopped thinking about getting or being pregnant. We went on with my regular work and daily life. Had fever every evening. Told her about my condition even though ter5e's still a day left for my period but she is confidently told me I think it's the baby forming in you that you have a fever" And here I am 14 weeks 6 days pregnant after 7 years of waiting and trying

 

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Posted : May 19, 2022 3:34 pm
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Unexpected pregnancy. Me and my partner are in Australia on a visa I'm from Germany and he's from Italy. A month ago he went to Italy because his dad passed away. After he left I was late with my period made a test and 2 lines. He was really shocked and he's 5 years younger than me. Now we are happy to be back together and full of love. But we have to figure out in whose country we want to live as we can't stay in Australia. I have to fly to Europe before my last trimester and eventually learn Italian

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Posted : May 19, 2022 3:57 pm
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Planned since 8 years and finally got it now

 

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Posted : May 19, 2022 3:58 pm
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Very unexpected! It was a week after my ex and I decided to break up. When I found  out and told him was pregnant he went crazy mad. Long story short. It's my 3rd pregnancy and it seems I'll be recieving all the mommy love all to myself once more.

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Posted : May 20, 2022 3:08 pm
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@aidanpethebridge You will be fine. I am currently raising 4 kids on my own and the 5th is on the way. Ex decided to check out cos it was too much for him. Realistically, the kids are more free with him out the way although for me it is sometimes stressfull. I am learning to let go

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Posted : May 20, 2022 3:13 pm
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It wasn't planned. I found I was pregnant in march at 4 weeks and then had a miscarriage the same month before my doctors appointment. I found out when I was 3 weeks and 3 days. I had a doctor appointment Monday and I'm definitely pregnant. My first ultrasound is June 13. A day after my birthday. And my estimated due date is January 12, a day after my best friends birthday who will be the godmother of my sweet angel 

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Posted : May 20, 2022 3:25 pm
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I'd practically just started using the pill, but something happened which meant I missed  one dose...2 weeks later I had a real bad heartburn, but I get hurt burn just not to this extremely  and it lasted about 4weeks. I was extremely tired & hormonal too. My uncle had just died (I 'd been trying to help look after him0 & I was very upset about it, I get heart burn anyway, plus I was stressed over exams so it didn't seem unusual to have this all going on at once it took until the scan to believe I was even slightly pregnant

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